submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.
Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.
Ephesians 5:21-32
A sermon by Dr. Jack Sharpe. Okay, Dr. Sharpe only said one thing in the sermon that I felt was weird so I’m going to focus on that. But please don’t take that as me saying this was a horrible sermon. It was not. Other then this one thing the rest of it was very good.
At one point in the sermon Dr. Sharpe had two examples. He talked about one wife who was very submissive but hated her husband and another wife who was not submissive but loved her husband. Dr. Jack said he would rather be loved by his wife then just have her submit without love.
Now the problem that I have with this is that if you show me a husband or wife that does not serve (= submit) to his/her wife/husband I will show you a husband/wive that does not love his/her spouse. What I am trying to say is that true Biblical love serves. True Biblical love submits. It serves and submits in a way that will point the loved one to Christ.
Because of Dr. Sharpe’s two examples I felt like he did not fully agree with this. I felt like he thought submissive was more like “Woman! Bring me a beer!” But that is not the type of submitting that Paul has in mind. I do not believe that Paul meant “wives fulfill your husbands every earthly desire” but in the examples that he gave, Dr. Sharpe equated that with submitting (the first imaginary wife knew what he wanted and got it for him before he even asked for it).
Husbands do you love your family? If so lead them to Jesus. Never lead them into sin. Wives do you love your husband and family? If so then follow him to Jesus (if he his a Christian. If not then point him to Jesus) and point your children to Jesus.
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